“Patriarchy”? This is a Matriarchy

Examining the Reality of Gender Dynamics

The Myth of Patriarchy

Many people argue that we live in a patriarchy, where men hold all the power and privilege. However, when we examine the facts and reality surrounding us, it becomes clear that we actually live in a matriarchy. Let’s explore the evidence that challenges the notion of a patriarchy.

A Closer Look at the Criminal Justice System

One area to consider is the criminal justice system. When comparing the sentencing of men and women for the same crimes, it is evident that women receive significantly lighter sentences. On average, women receive sentences that are 60% shorter than men for non-violent crimes like fraud. In some countries, such as the UK, there is even a movement advocating for the elimination of prison sentences for women altogether. This unequal treatment undermines the idea of a patriarchal society.

The Disparity in Cancer Research Funding

Another aspect to consider is the funding for cancer research. While both men and women have similar chances of developing prostate and breast cancer, breast cancer research receives ten times more funding than prostate cancer research. This disproportional allocation of resources highlights the societal bias towards women’s health, contradicting the idea of a patriarchal society.

The Gender Pay Gap Myth

The gender pay gap is often cited as evidence of a patriarchal society, with claims that women earn only 70 cents on the dollar compared to men. However, a closer examination of the data reveals a more complex picture. The pay gap exists when comparing all jobs, but it is important to consider the choices women make in their careers. Women tend to opt for professions like teaching and nursing, which have lower remuneration but offer other advantages such as flexibility and work-life balance. When comparing individuals in the same profession, the gender pay gap narrows significantly, and in some cases, women actually earn more than men. This suggests that the pay gap is not solely due to discrimination but is influenced by personal choices and preferences.

The Treatment of Women as Delicate Flowers

One noticeable trend in our society is the way women are often treated as delicate flowers. Their words are automatically believed, regardless of how absurd they may be. This phenomenon was evident during the Kavanaugh confirmation hearing, where Christine Blasey Ford’s testimony was treated as indisputable truth, despite inconsistencies and lack of evidence. This tendency to unquestioningly accept women’s words contributes to the perception of a matriarchal society.

The Origin of the Problem

Understanding the origin of this societal shift requires examining the deregulation of the sexual marketplace. In today’s society, a significant portion of women pursues the top 20% of men, leaving the remaining 80% of men with limited sexual opportunities. These disenfranchised men, also known as beta orbiters, have become accustomed to deferring to women and appeasing them in hopes of gaining favor. This behavior is reflected in positions of authority where men tend to turn a blind eye to women, prioritizing their desires and opinions. In the past, when more men had partners and understood women’s nature, skepticism towards women’s claims was more prevalent.

The Future of Gender Dynamics

This trend is unlikely to change and may even worsen in the future. As women become increasingly selective in their choice of partners, men lower on the sexual hierarchy will continue to appease women’s demands. This appeasement can be observed in various areas of society, from the #MeToo movement to the acceptance of unquestionable female testimony in court. This shift towards a matriarchal society will persist until a breaking point is reached, leading to potential societal upheaval.

It is crucial to acknowledge the complex dynamics at play and challenge the prevailing narrative of a patriarchal society. By critically examining the evidence, we can foster a more nuanced understanding of gender dynamics and strive for a more equitable society for all.