Handling Nasty Women

Key insights

• 😳 The woman’s direct rejection and lack of interest in the man goes to show that she had an edge, making her interesting and different from other girls.
• 😔 “She wanted to hurt my feelings for whatever reasons of her own she wanted to stick it to me puncture my ego and puncture it rather viciously if you think about it.”
• 🔥 Some women will go out of their way to really stick it to you, sometimes because they have serious problems of their own.
• 😔 Nasty people often hurt others because they have serious psychological problems and express their “fucked-upness” by deliberately trying to hurt others.
• 😡 Ignoring a nasty woman and not giving her the reaction she wants can be the best way to handle the situation.

A Dating Experience with a Nasty Woman

A few years ago, I had a date with a woman who turned out to be quite unpleasant. At the time, I didn’t realize she was a “nasty woman.” We had a lunch date and everything seemed to go well. However, after the date, things took an unexpected turn. In this blog, I will share my experience and discuss the behavior of some individuals who can be intentionally hurtful. It’s important to recognize these traits and know how to handle such situations.

A Pleasant Lunch Date

We met up for lunch on a weekend and had a great time. The conversation flowed, and we enjoyed a delicious steak lunch. I found her charming and attractive, with a unique edge that piqued my interest. She wasn’t like the other girls I had encountered before, which made her intriguing.

After lunch, I walked her to her car and we shared a kiss. It seemed like she was into it, and I was certainly interested in pursuing things further. I even paid for the valet parking. I thought I would hear from her within a couple of days, but days turned into a week, and still no contact from her.

The Unexpected Text Message

Curiosity got the better of me, so I decided to reach out to her. I texted her asking how she was doing and if everything was okay. To my surprise, she responded almost immediately. She expressed that she had a good time on the date but felt that things wouldn’t work out between us. She thanked me for lunch and apologized for not being in touch earlier.

An Unpleasant Revelation

The reason behind her sudden change of heart left me stunned. She revealed that she felt embarrassed and regretted the kiss we shared at the valet parking. It was a blow to my ego and a hurtful remark. Most people would simply ignore someone they’re not interested in, but she chose to be brutally honest.

The Power of Words

Her choice of words and the way she conveyed her feelings was unnecessarily cruel. It made me realize that she had a mean streak, which she hid behind her initial charm. This incident highlighted the existence of individuals who deliberately aim to hurt others.

Understanding Nasty Behavior

Encounters with nasty individuals are not uncommon. In fact, I have come across many such people, both men and women, throughout my life. Their nastiness often stems from their own personal issues and psychological problems. They express their internal pain by inflicting harm on others.

It’s important to recognize the signs of a damaged individual. Nastiness is often a characteristic of someone who has unresolved issues. These individuals may have had difficult upbringings or experienced trauma, leading to their current state of nastiness.

Dealing with Nasty Individuals

If you find yourself in a situation with a nasty person, it’s best to disengage and move on. Ignoring their hurtful remarks and actions is the most sensible approach. Engaging in a fight or retaliating with insults only gives them the satisfaction of knowing they got to you.

In my case, I had a chance to respond to her hurtful message through text. I took my time to craft a response that would hit her where it hurt. However, this opportunity is rare, and it’s not advisable to stoop to their level. Most of the time, it’s best to simply ignore them and not let their negativity affect you.

Compassion for the Nasty

While it’s important to protect yourself from the toxicity of nasty individuals, it’s also essential to approach the situation with compassion and understanding. Recognize that these individuals are likely struggling with their own demons and use negativity as a coping mechanism.

In the case of the woman I went on a date with, her excessive drinking during our lunch was a clear sign of deeper issues. Alcohol abuse often indicates underlying problems. Rather than taking her hurtful remark to heart, I felt sorry for her and hoped she would seek help for her drinking problem.

Conclusion

Encountering a nasty person can be a challenging experience, but it’s important to remember that their behavior stems from their own internal struggles. By recognizing the signs of a damaged individual, we can protect ourselves and choose not to engage with their negativity.

While my encounter with a nasty woman was hurtful at the time, I now look back on it as a funny story. I’m relieved to have moved on from that toxic relationship and grateful for the insight it provided. Remember, it’s best to leave nasty individuals behind and focus on surrounding yourself with positive influences.